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I write about the California divorce process, mediation, co-parenting, and everything in between — in plain English, without the legalese.

Featured · September 10, 2026

On Millennials Killing the Old-School Divorce Model…And Why It's a Good Thing

Millennials are rejecting the old-school adversarial divorce — and that's a good thing. A California divorce mediator on why mediation should be the default, and what it actually costs.

September 3, 2026

When Your Ex Dates During Divorce: The Silver Lining to the Suckage of Watching Them Get Their Groove Back

Your ex dating during the divorce isn't just painful — it could be quietly working in your favor. Here's why, from a divorce mediator who's been there.

August 31, 2026

Is Your Divorce Lawyer the Problem? Or Are You?

Before you blame your divorce lawyer for a slow, expensive case, ask yourself three questions. A California divorce mediator on who's really steering the ship.

August 27, 2026

Should You Date While Your Divorce Is Still Pending?

Thinking about dating while your divorce is still open? Here's how it can affect your settlement, finances, and custody case before you decide.

August 25, 2026

The Myth of the Amicable Divorce

What does "amicable divorce" actually require? Less than you think — and more than you'd expect. A California divorce mediator breaks down the real bare minimum.

August 1, 2026

The One (Free) Document That Can Save You Thousands in Fees in Your Divorce

The few hours of prep that can save you thousands in legal fees — what to write down before your first meeting with a divorce lawyer or mediator.

January 15, 2026

20 Frequently Asked Questions (And To-The-Point Answers) About Spousal Support in California

Spousal support — also called alimony — is one of the most confusing parts of a California divorce. Here are 20 straight-to-the-point answers to the questions I hear most.

March 7, 2026

How to Talk to Your Spouse About Divorce Mediation (When They're Not Sure About It)

Getting your spouse on board with divorce mediation might feel like one more impossible conversation. Here are 10 practical tips to make it go better — and why it's worth the effort.

May 13, 2026

Do You Need a Lawyer If You're Going Through Divorce Mediation in California?

Mediation is one of the best ways to resolve a California divorce — but does that mean you don't need an attorney at all? The honest answer is: it's complicated.

July 1, 2026

How to Be a Good Friend to Someone Going Through a Divorce

When someone you care about is separating or divorcing, good intentions aren't always enough. Here's what actually helps — and what to avoid.

All blog content is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For guidance specific to your situation, please consult a licensed California attorney or contact me directly.